Hello
beautiful people of Nigeria, Africa and the world.
It’s great
to be back on another edition of this piece, we did the first piece last week,
and you might just want to check that out (link)… we will be continuing from
that point on this edition.
We all know
how important the woman is to this race and existence…a woman can give you a
one way ticket to heaven, make you feel like Obama, Putin and all of them put
together…yeah, sounds nice right?
But you have to pay the
price.
You see, a
woman is a living embodiment of beauty, emotions, strength and
passion, your ability to identify and enhance these qualities in a woman
is the key to winning her heart.
So many a
time we confuse quantity for quality, a woman needs
quality time, not necessary all your time- I buttressed this on this last edition(link), sometimes
we spend a lifetime with our partners with little or no significant moments. Of
course every lady wants a successful man, especially in a tough economy with
large disparities like Nigeria’s, but for you to enjoy the best of your lady
you must love her better.
See a woman as your G-class Benz, you will take time to
ensure you get the best grade engine oil, and premium motor spirit to keep its
performance top notch, this is exactly the same with a lady, you get what you give.
This week
without much ado, let me give you some tips to keep that love floating in the clouds…lol
(1) When you go out with your woman, make sure you
make her feel special in front of your audience
When hanging out with your boys at a get together party, at the end of
the year office party, at a family’s wedding, or anywhere you are hanging out/celebrating
with your people and your woman- ensure you show everyone how special she is to
you.
The problem with most marriage/relationships is complacency, and men are
guilty of this. As time wears on we tend to take for granted the special
qualities of our woman and how special they are to us, we stop doing those
things that endeared them to us in the first place.
For a woman, they always want you to keep doing those lovely things that
made them fall for you. When you stop showing your woman affection, calling her
regularly, paying her attention, doing the things she like for her- she starts
to feel disappointed, used and boredom/neglect sets in. Women are emotional beings;
their emotions control a huge part of their decisions, response and actions.
Never take a woman for granted, always stand by her side, especially when
in a public function/outing.
Some ladies always complain of this
to me during consultations with some of them, so take note guys.
(2) Give her therapy and relaxation in private
sessions
Most men do not know this, but a woman rates a man high if he knows how
to handle her and give her that therapeutic relaxation when they are together
in private- it should not be a wam-bam
affair, it is not a race, relax take your time to
entertain her, please her and satisfy her.
A woman wants you to spend time with her, play with her so you listen and
understand all about her. Serve her a nice meal/dish, watch a nice movie
together or listen to great songs. Dance with your woman, sit her down, massage
her feet, rub her legs and make sure she is comfortable before delving into her
secret garden.
Take things slow, love sessions are about the whole package, it should be
holistic. Every part of her body needs to feel loved and beautiful.
When a man take his time, to listen to the sounds and movement of his
woman, satisfying her gets easier. Every woman is not the same, what works for Anita might not work for
Tonya, take your time to find out what her keys
are.
Always remember that a woman is only human, hence social and economic
challenges of the society and world we live in can sometimes wear her down,
though some try to keep it inside- we must always be calm when dealing with a
woman, due to their nature, they cannot always bottle up pressure like men can-
so when those utterances comes out of her, just maintain silence, breathe and
approach the issue after 3mins.
Only a weak man hits a woman, never beat a woman-it is assault, a
criminal offense.
Yep people, I think we have talked much about our dear women for today, I
need to go to the beach with my boys to cool off now, see something nice you
know…oops…wink.
Dr. Rocs
Dr. Rocs is a writer on relationships, love and good sexual
life for couples and lovers.
For consultation call: +234-(0)9094923095
