Thursday, 22 January 2015

The Timeless Qualities Women Have That Men Will Always Find Attractive


As they say, you live and you learn. That’s life. Nobody actually knows what the f*ck is happening, anyway. A lot of times, living is like the autocorrect function on Microsoft Word.
Although you may not know how to spell “Czechoslovakia” in the third paragraph of your history final, just as you may not know what you want to be when you grow up, sometimes you have to throw caution to the wind, and try things out. And sometimes you’ll be right.
Then again, a lot of times that red-dotted line will appear. Hopefully, by the time the fifth paragraph rolls around, you’ll know not to type “Checkosulvachia.” Metaphorically speaking, of course.
This concept applies to women, too. You may think you’re attracted to someone for all the right reasons, until you realize you’ve been dating a girl for 17 months and the strongest connection you share is, well, her father’s “connect” at Madison Square Garden.
At that point, you need to press the “delete” button, and figure out where you went wrong. It’s hard though. Sometimes, the same qualities you found attractive at first, turn out to be the ones that drive you away, later on.
Remember that girl who had the sexiest taste for deep house music? That got old quick, when you realized that’s about as deep as she was.
At the end of the day, as clichéd as it may sound, you live and you learn. You keep a mental log of what she had that you did like, and what the other one had that you didn’t — then try and make it all come together in the next one.
Granted, there is certainly no scientific formula for this, but from my experience, there are qualities that women possess, which usually “stay attractive” for the long haul. These are the types of attractive qualities you will want to build on, and look out for, down the road. Here are the top eight I’ve picked up on:


A sense of style is always attractive. A sense of style is also enduring. The tough part is distinguishing between which girls have style, and which girls have a keen eye for “trendy” things they find while scrolling through their Instagram feeds. Unlike trends, style doesn’t come and go.


One of the most attractive qualities a girl can possess is confidence. Women with confidence don’t seek approval, or need any extra attention from others.
Confidence doesn’t just manifest from nowhere, either; people with confidence also possess a sense of self — moreover, one that they take pride in. It’s sexy when a girl can steal every pair of eyes in the room, but it’s even sexier when she knows it.


Originality is the anti-basic, the anti-boring. There isn’t one way to be original, and it certainly doesn’t mean buying a one way ticket to Seattle until you find a hipster-girl who suits your fancy.
Originality is what will keep you guessing, and when a girl is truly original, this quality will constantly be reappearing in new, different ways.


Think about it, class can never be unattractive. Unless you’re Jeff Lebowski, you’ll more often than not want a girl to settle down with and do, I don’t know, classy things with. Dinners, nights out, vacations — girls with actual class won’t need a budget to flaunt this quality.
Being classy isn’t about what drink you buy, or which specific pool club you’re a member of — it’s about conducting yourself the right way.
Don’t confuse snobbiness with class. If a girl throws a fit about your choice of red — over white — to pair with the dinner you’re treating her to, then she’s not classy; she’s whiny. That’s not attractive.


If a girl can make you laugh, what’s not to be attracted to? Wit is one of the most enjoyable forms of humor because it actually provokes thought.
A woman who’s witty won’t need to constantly put people down to get a rise out of you, and that’s always attractive. Although I know he’s a dude, think about the caliber of women Jerry Seinfeld would pull almost every episode of “Seinfeld.”
I promise you he wasn’t charming women solely on his looks. Witty women will also have this same effect on you.


Think about how unattractive Skyler from “Breaking Bad” was throughout the final 16 episodes or so. I’m sure you f*cking hated her guts (we all did).
Realistically, you can’t really blame her for being less-than-pleased with the current state of her life — she was married to the largest meth cook west of the Mississippi and was designated head-money-launderer — but the fact that she wasn’t backing Walt made her character just so easily loathed.
Loyalty is always attractive. Look for women who are loyal because when it all goes down, you’ll want to know that she’ll stay down for you, regardless.


Intelligence is possibly the most attractive quality you can find in a girl. It’s not about wearing thick-framed glasses, or publicly flaunting your degree from Cornell in casual conversation.
That’s not the type of intelligence I’m referring to. Most of the time, regular old “street smarts” are equally as attractive as any Ivy League diploma.
After getting greeted by a parking ticket wedged in between the windshield wipers of your car when you asked your girl to find a decent spot while out to dinner, I’m sure you’ll soon realize the value of a girl with “smarts.”


Although the most honest girl won’t always look like Adriana Lima, in your eyes, honesty is one of the most important qualities for a woman to have. I can promise that if there’s one sure-fire waste of time in life, it’s strapping yourself to a liar.
The thing about lying is that one lie can quickly lead to zero truth. Finding a girl who’s honest will provide you with someone to trust and, more importantly, to trust in. There’s nothing more attractive than the latter.

Friday, 26 December 2014

Wonderful Christmas destinations for romance

courtesy wiki

Chicago, Illinois

Reykjavik, Iceland
If you can deal with the cold, Keykjavik offers a beautiful Yule Town Christmas with a city that is filled with peculiar Christmas traditions (such as the 13 “Yuletide Lads” which are Scruffy Santas).

Key West, Florida
You can’t get any more laid back than Key West. Warm temperatures, beautiful beaches, and a crowd of people who know how to have fun makes Key West a good choice to spend Christmas.

Quebec City, Canada
If you are looking for a Christmas in the wilderness, Quebec might be your stop. Described as a “Haven for environmentally friendly, outdoor enthusiasts” Quebec offers many opportunities for hiking, snowshoeing, and snowmobiling.

Trømso, Norway
Offering a beautiful view of the northern lights, Trømso gives you the rare treat of a longer evening.The “Day” is just a couple of hours of twilight.

Nuremberg, Germany
Pulling in over 2 million visitors each year, the city boasts of an impressive Christmas market with 200 select vendors who put up incredible displays in order to compete for the most beautiful stall design award.

Taos, New Mexico

Barcelona, Spain
Its celebration of the Christmas holiday is well worth the stay. Though this celebration starts on the evening of January the 4th, it’s a magnificent holiday experience with canons, fireworks; and an incredible parade of camels, elephants and giraffes.

Durango, Colorado
If you want a Mountain Christmas without all the hype and fanfare, Durango is your spot. Enjoy the pristine natural surroundings and have yourself a merry relaxing Christmas.

Paris, France
It shouldn’t come as a surprise that the city of lights is on this list. With streets lined with lights, the Eiffel Tower shining radiantly, and people enjoying the fantastic atmosphere of one of the most beautiful cities in the world, Paris should be a staple for any holiday travel.

Venice, Italy
During the holidays, the tourist season for one of the worlds most important tourist destination thins out, creating a beautiful opportunity to enjoy the grandeur of Venice and its holiday decorations.

Aspen, Colorado
If you’re dreaming of a white Christmas, Aspen is the spot for you. Not only does Aspen offers the opportunity to ski down snow blanketed mountains, the town also hosts a series of incredible holiday music events and decorations.

Edinburgh, Scotland
The second most populous city in Scotland is home to one of the most vivid holiday celebrations which include holiday light shows and fireworks.

San Juan, Puerto Rico
If a snowy Christmas is not for you, then check out the Caribbean Island of Puerto Rico for a truly tropical Christmas adventure. Go and experience all manners of lights, foods and partying…lots and lots of partying.

Thursday, 25 December 2014

Lekki dating family wishes all our followers a beautiful Christmas and beautiful relationships in the new year.

Christmas season are for gifts and feasts,a time to spend time with family and loved ones.

As we relish in the season,let us always remember that love is the essence of it all...we are one people.

Go out there, have fun and share love this Christmas.

Saturday, 25 October 2014

I don’t mind dating a younger man now –Ara

Now single drummer girl, Ara, has said she is ready to give marriage another shot now that she and her once Iceland-based hubby have divorced.
In an exclusive chat with Saturday Beats recently, Ara said she wouldn’t even mind going for a younger guy if he comes around her.
“When I meet the right person and fall in love, I will consider marriage. I really want to fall in love again. I don’t believe in marriage just for its sake. If a younger guy comes up to me, I don’t mind dating the person. I don’t mind marrying somebody who I am older than. I have spoken to a couple of people and they don’t see anything wrong with it. If the person has a mature mind and is committed, then it is not a big deal.”
When asked if she is not looking for somebody who she can control and manipulate, the singer said she is not the overbearing type and she never exhibited such trait in her former marriage.
“I am not that kind of person. I am the most submissive wife. I am ‘mumu’ for love. You can ask my ex, he can tell you. There was never a day I didn’t ask him what I should cook even though I was the breadwinner. I would always ask him what he wanted. And whatever he said, if we didn’t have it, I would jump on an okada and enter the market to go and buy the stuff. I am a hopeless lover,” she said.
Ara revealed that she and her ex are still “good friends” because, “we have a child together. My boy is six years already. He has remarried. I am not envious that he got married again. God forbid! When he calls me, I always ask him if his wife isn’t around. I would also ask him if his wife knows that I am not interested in him. I don’t know her and I don’t know her name. I wouldn’t want her to feel I want to take her husband again. So I tell him I hope the wife knows that I am not interested and that his calling me is just to find out about his son. I wouldn’t want to make any woman unhappy.

Friday, 24 October 2014

World’s Most Expensive Divorce : Owner Of Monaco Football Club Ordered To Pay Ex-Wife £2.7 Billion

The owner of Monaco football club has been ordered to pay a world record divorce settlement of more than £2.6 billion to his ex-wife.This is half of his 5.2 billion dollar fortune. According to Mail online, Judges in Switzerland said Dmitry Rybolovlev, 47, has to give Elena Rybolovleva, who was with him for 24 years, a very precise 4,020,555,987 Swiss francs and 20 centimes. It follow a six year legal saga in which Mr Rybolovlev, who made his billions through a successful fertiliser business, bitterly contested Ms Rybolovlev’s claims to two of the most expensive properties in the USA and a £100million Greek island.She divorced him on the grounds of infidelity.

Now Mr Rybolovlev must sign a cheque for the incredible sum in the Swiss city of Geneva.

Maheeda Wants Have Sex Tape With Davido

, Nigerian Gospel singer, known for her raunchy and semi-nude images has openly declared her readiness to record a sex tape and named award-winning singer, as the only male she would will willingly and gladly record a lengthy pornographic video with.
A few weeks back, Maheeda disclosed that she had a dream where she had pulsating sex with Davido, a revelation that prompted quite a number of fans concluding that perhaps, she had a crush on the singer.
“I’m ready for a sex tape, but if it’s not with Davido, I’m not doing, better go and convince him! I’m waiting,” she eagerly declared. In addition, she posted semi-nude pictures of herself.

How To Make Your Wife Love Sex

Sex is obviously one of the most important components of a marriage, and efforts should be undertaken to keep the passion burning even after the honeymoon is long over. Here are some tips to help make
  1. Be consistently romantic with your wife. As the husband, you have most of the responsibility to keep your relationship’s fire burning. Take the effort to treat your wife like the princess that she is, through simple gestures such as helping her with chores when you can, giving her nice presents now and then, and really listening to her and caring about her opinions and feelings. Make her your number one priority – over your work, your bosses, your friends. Be surprised that, as you exert more and more effort towards your relationship, you’d grow to value your wife more and more too. Plus, if you are consistent about your efforts, you’d be surprised at how she will also return all your affections. Remember this: a woman values a man who showers her with love and attention. Once your wife knows just how much you love her, your acts of romance will just naturally culminate in more love-filled sex.
  2. Let her feel 100% secure in your relationship. Another thing that women look for in a relationship is security. Let her realize every single day that there’s just no other woman for you. Keep on having a “crush” with your wife. Brag about her to your friends (whether or not she’s around). Remember this: whether a woman blooms or withers in a relationship this depends on how she’s being treated by her man.