Thursday 13 August 2015

loving a woman better- chapter 2



Hello beautiful people of Nigeria, Africa and the world.
It’s great to be back on another edition of this piece, we did the first piece last week, and you might just want to check that out (link)… we will be continuing from that point on this edition.
We all know how important the woman is to this race and existence…a woman can give you a one way ticket to heaven, make you feel like Obama, Putin and all of them put together…yeah, sounds nice right?

But you have to pay the price.

You see, a woman is a living embodiment of beauty, emotions, strength and passion, your ability to identify and enhance these qualities in a woman is the key to winning her heart.
So many a time we confuse quantity for quality, a woman needs quality time, not necessary all your time- I buttressed this on this last edition(link), sometimes we spend a lifetime with our partners with little or no significant moments. Of course every lady wants a successful man, especially in a tough economy with large disparities like Nigeria’s, but for you to enjoy the best of your lady you must love her better.
See a woman as your G-class Benz, you will take time to ensure you get the best grade engine oil, and premium motor spirit to keep its performance top notch, this is exactly the same with a lady, you get what you give.
This week without much ado, let me give you some tips to keep that love floating in the clouds…lol
 (1) When you go out with your woman, make sure you make her feel special in front of your audience
When hanging out with your boys at a get together party, at the end of the year office party, at a family’s wedding, or anywhere you are hanging out/celebrating with your people and your woman- ensure you show everyone how special she is to you.
The problem with most marriage/relationships is complacency, and men are guilty of this. As time wears on we tend to take for granted the special qualities of our woman and how special they are to us, we stop doing those things that endeared them to us in the first place.

For a woman, they always want you to keep doing those lovely things that made them fall for you. When you stop showing your woman affection, calling her regularly, paying her attention, doing the things she like for her- she starts to feel disappointed, used and boredom/neglect sets in. Women are emotional beings; their emotions control a huge part of their decisions, response and actions.

Never take a woman for granted, always stand by her side, especially when in a public function/outing.

Some ladies always complain of this to me during consultations with some of them, so take note guys.

 (2)  Give her therapy and relaxation in private sessions
Most men do not know this, but a woman rates a man high if he knows how to handle her and give her that therapeutic relaxation when they are together in private- it should not be a wam-bam affair, it is not a race, relax take your time to entertain her, please her and satisfy her.

A woman wants you to spend time with her, play with her so you listen and understand all about her. Serve her a nice meal/dish, watch a nice movie together or listen to great songs. Dance with your woman, sit her down, massage her feet, rub her legs and make sure she is comfortable before delving into her secret garden.
Take things slow, love sessions are about the whole package, it should be holistic. Every part of her body needs to feel loved and beautiful.

When a man take his time, to listen to the sounds and movement of his woman, satisfying her gets easier. Every woman is not the same, what works for Anita might not work for Tonya, take your time to find out what her keys are.



Always remember that a woman is only human, hence social and economic challenges of the society and world we live in can sometimes wear her down, though some try to keep it inside- we must always be calm when dealing with a woman, due to their nature, they cannot always bottle up pressure like men can- so when those utterances comes out of her, just maintain silence, breathe and approach the issue after 3mins.

Only a weak man hits a woman, never beat a woman-it is assault, a criminal offense.

Yep people, I think we have talked much about our dear women for today, I need to go to the beach with my boys to cool off now, see something nice you know…oops…wink.

Dr. Rocs
Dr. Rocs is a writer on relationships, love and good sexual life for couples and lovers. 
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Saturday 1 August 2015

Father defiles 11yr old daughter in Benue



A 40-year-old man has been dragged to a Makurdi High Court sitting in Benue State, for allegedly having sexual intercourse with his 11yr old daughter, reports Vanguard.
It was learned that the randy father was arrested after a neighbor who heard the cries of the girl, sneaked into his compound and caught him in the act.
The neighbour raised an alarm and other residents gathered and arrested him. On interrogation, the little girl said her father had been engaging her in repeated sexual abuse whenever her mother was away from home.
On taking the girl for medical examination, it was discovered that the girl had been defiled several times.
The randy man has been ordered remanded at the Makurdi Federal Priosn by the presiding judge, Cecilia Bakara, where he will be till September 29, when the case will be heard.

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